Slice cabbage in half, rinse well, and remove the core.
Cut the cabbage into chunks. Add to a large saute pan (I used cast iron.
Add salt and pepper, a tablespoon of olive oil, and begin to cook over medium high heat until the cabbage has softened a bit (10 minutes or so).
Add about 1/3 cup of water and cover the pan. Let cook for about 10 to 15 minutes more until it is very soft. Keep checking the cabbage to make sure it's not too dried out and add a few tablespoons of water if needed. You don't want it to steam so don't add too much water, just enough to prevent it from burning.
In the meantime, begin to make the vinaigrette (see below).
After the cabbage has softened, remove cover from the pan, and continue to cook, turn, and caramelize the cabbage for another 10 to 15 minutes until it is at the desired softness and crispiness.
Remove pan from heat, add vinaigrette, toss, and adjust for salt and pepper if needed. Enjoy.